You Me Her (2016–2020)

1. S01E01Cigarettes and Funions and CrapMarch 22, 2016 5.3Suburban Portland couple Emma and Jack Trakarsky are totally in love but seriously lacking spice. They end up tangled up with an escort (gra
2. S01E02Season's bestCan You be Cool?March 29, 2016 8.0As Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to put the mother of all weird days behind them, Emma reveals a secret, Izzy finds committing to safe-bet Andy t
3. S01E03No PenetrationApril 5, 2016 5.0Jack, Izzy, and Emma, all together for the first time, agree to keep their relationship a business arrangement. Emma has her first date with
4. S01E04Check a BoxApril 12, 2016 8.0Jack and Emma start to wonder if they're on the same page. Izzy tries to find stability in Andy.After a startling development, Jack and Emma
5. S01E05Niece JackieApril 19, 2016 7.0Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collecti
6. S01E06The T WordApril 26, 2016 8.0Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to consp
7. S01E07The Morning AfterMay 3, 2016 4.5The awkward morning after dredges up old fears for Jack and Emma and wounded feelings for Izzy. With their three-way fling feeling like more
8. S01E08The Relationship More PopulatedMay 10, 2016 8.0With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate t
9. S01E09Sweet Home ColoradoMay 17, 2016 7.0After their wild home date turns into a tearful breakup, Izzy decides she needs to move back home to Colorado to deal with her issues. Unawa
10. S01E10Trope Isn't a Four Letter WordMay 24, 2016 8.0Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damag

Season 1 ranked & reviewed

1. S02E01Sex Fairy and the Eternal FlamesFebruary 14, 2017 4.5In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their gr
2. S02E02Like Riding a Vagina BikeFebruary 21, 2017 4.5The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and
3. S02E03Remember, Ruby, RememberFebruary 28, 2017 4.5Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on
4. S02E04Season's bestCat in the BoxMarch 7, 2017 8.0It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run i
5. S02E05Stoner Sensai's Secrets of LoveMarch 14, 2017 8.0Jack's still caved out at big bro's house, Izzy's trying to coax the married couple back together, and after things go bad at work, Emma's n
6. S02E06What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?March 21, 2017 8.0Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby.
7. S02E07Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby VesselMarch 28, 2017 7.0With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's
8. S02E08Freaky Little Love PoodlesApril 4, 2017 8.0Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and
9. S02E09Silver Linings and VodkaApril 11, 2017 8.0Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve
10. S02E10Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?April 18, 2017 8.0Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF

Season 2 ranked & reviewed

1. S03E01Dickless in SeattleMarch 20, 2018 7.0Four months later, Emma’s still in Seattle, climbing her way to the top of the Pinnacle ladder alongside an old flame rekindled. Jack and Iz
2. S03E02I Said Make UpMarch 27, 2018 7.0The day before the divorce signing, Jack and Emma are forced to spend an afternoon together divvying up their stuff. Someone very important
3. S03E03Tourist Lesbians and Millennial TwatsApril 3, 2018 7.0After signing the divorce papers, Emma returns to her new love in Seattle, but brings something from her old love Jack with her.
4. S03E04Inconceivable!April 10, 2018 7.0Emma remains torn between her new life and love in Seattle and her old live and love(s) back in Portland, but going back to talk to Jack abo
5. S03E05Season's bestWelcome to the Tiger CageApril 17, 2018 8.0Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a s
6. S03E06Fool Me Once? Shame on You. Fool Me Twice? Blow MeApril 24, 2018 7.0Jack and Ben finally meet but Jack's got a more pressing issue on his mind. Emma tries to apologize to Izzy but it falls on deaf ears. Carme
7. S03E07Hold Onto Your OvariesMay 1, 2018 7.0At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers t
8. S03E08The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin SpiceMay 8, 2018 8.0Nina's emerging feelings for Shaun are complicated when Andy pops back up with one hell of a story. Ben plants seeds of doubt about how Izzy
9. S03E09Asshole, Other Asshole, and the Depressive MuppetMay 15, 2018 7.0Jack and Emma pressure Izzy to give Seattle a chance, and she volleys back an ultimatum. As Carmen's dreams come true, the Amaris come to a
10. S03E10You Be You And I'll Be MeMay 22, 2018 8.0The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, true

Season 3 ranked & reviewed

1. S04E01Triangular Peg, Meet Round HoleApril 9, 2019 7.0Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, “test-renting” the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma’s
2. S04E02The Saddest Clown Show EverApril 16, 2019 7.0Jack tries to bro-out with his new replacement friend, Nathan. Izzy decides to apply for the Hawthorne School counsellor job. Emma tries to
3. S04E03The Deaf Leading The Blind Leading The StupidApril 23, 2019 7.0The EJI sex slump continues even as Emma insists Jack and Izzy should be okay getting it on without her. So why can't they seem to pull the
4. S04E04That’s so Stupid and I’m Definitely Not CryingApril 30, 2019 7.0Emma’s been reading up on the rules of polyamory and apparently EJI is doing it all wrong; Gabe blows Emma and Izzy’s mind by revealing a fa
5. S04E05Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!May 7, 2019 7.0EJI attend Poly Training Camp with Portland’s resident poly expert, Coach Remi. They expected the unexpected, but not that they’d be “outed”
6. S04E06Season's bestEat Your Strangers and Don't Talk to Vegetables!May 14, 2019 8.0EJI's new symbol of their love, a brightly painted front door, garners the attention of the neighborhood, who don't appreciate "Marigold 142
7. S04E07Now Who's Got Egg in Her Hair?May 21, 2019 7.0The aftermath of Izzy and Nathan's egg-cellent adventure has surprising consequences, drawing Gabriel into the sticky mess. Meanwhile, Emma
8. S04E08A Whole Bouillabaisse of CrazyMay 28, 2019 7.0Lala's not the only one Izzy has to make reparations to; her bad late-night choices seem to keep ringing up consequences, forcing EJI to con
9. S04E09I'm Popeye and You're My Beautiful SpinachJune 4, 2019 7.0Izzy tries to friend zone Nathan once and for all. Jack and his mom finally have their showdown.
10. S04E10Who We Are...and Who We Aren'tJune 11, 2019 7.0Everybody in EJI World prepares for the anniversary party, counting down the moments until they sign papers to legally bind them together as

Season 4 ranked & reviewed

1. S05E01The Stages of (Breakup) GriefJune 8, 2020—Izzy returns to Portland to find that life continued on without her.
2. S05E02Dr. Feelgood's Magic TeaJune 8, 2020—When Lala and Ben unwittingly give everyone Saharan Truth Serum, the party really gets started.
3. S05E03Squonk HappensJune 8, 2020—EJI succumb to The First Stage of Breakup Grief, the dreaded “I Want My Shit Back.”
4. S05E04Also, I Hate You.June 8, 2020—Emma and Jack have planned a romantic night away at a hotel, and Izzy doesn’t care. Not at all. Nope. Not one bit. And shut up.
5. S05E05Remember the Carlyle!June 8, 2020—EJI drop the masks of indifference and finally say what’s been bubbling up since Izzy made a run for the border six months ago.
6. S05E06Break It like You Mean ItJune 8, 2020—EJI agrees to “take a beat,” not make any rash decisions. But when Nina finds out, she decides to take matters into her own hands.
7. S05E07Going Deep DishJune 8, 2020—Nina comforts Izzy while Emma and Jack get life-altering news from Dave.
8. S05E08Oh, Mama!June 8, 2020—After Izzy’s verbal castration and hard no to their apology, you think Emma and Jack would just pack up and leave? Think again.
9. S05E09Say Something. Say Anything.June 8, 2020—Emma and Jack have one last trick up their sleeves to win Izzy back. Time to go big.
10. S05E10Home Is Where the Flaming Heart IsJune 8, 2020—The Curious Case of EJI is resolved: Izzy’s leaving and Emma and Jack are staying because it’s the right thing to do. The end. Except...

Season 5 ranked & reviewed